But the reality about anal is not, actually, that everyone’s doing it, says research psychoanalyst and author Paul Joannides, Psy.D., whose comprehensive book on sexuality, The Guide to Getting it On!, is used in college and medical school sex-ed courses across the US and Canada.
First it was shocking, then it was having a cultural moment, now it’s practically standard in the modern bedroom repertoire-or so a quick scan of any media, from porn to HBO, will tell you.
